7 Deadly Mistakes Men Make When The Wife Cheats – And How YOU Can Avoid Them

For most men, surviving your wife’s infidelity will be one of the biggest challenges of our lives.

We all enter marriages – myself included – with the expectation that we’ll never have to cope with our wife being unfaithful.

If you’re like

me, I never thought in a MILLION YEARS I’d ever go through the gut-wrenching hell that infidelity is.

And this is part of the reason why recovering from infidelity is so damn hard for us guys.

Let me explain…

Imagine a world where before people get married, they walk into an office and sit down with a wise old man.

And that wise man says,

“I understand you two are in love, you want to spend the rest of your lives together, and have kids, is that right?”

And the two of you look each other in the eyes, smile, and say “That’s absolutely right.”

Then the wise old man gets out a big book – I mean DICTIONARY big – and asks, “Do you know what this is?”

You say “Nope, sure don’t.”

He says, “This is a list of all the people who ever entered marriage in love, with high hopes, just like you two… and with no real concern about infidelity…”

Then he goes on, “… but for everyone one of these marriages, at least one of the partners were unfaithful.”

“Wow,” your soon to be wife says, “that’s a lot of broken hearts!”

The wise old man says, “Yep. Here, ” and he reaches down behind his desk, “here’s another interesting book. You know what this is?”

This book looked like the first, but was much, much smaller.

The two of you shake your heads.

“This book contains all the names of people who got married with hopes, like you two… but DIDN’T have to deal with infidelity.”

“Why is it so much smaller?” the two of you ask the wise old man.

“Because many more people cheat in marriages than are faithful. And that’s a harsh reality the two of you need to accept if you want to get married with open eyes and avoid the pain of infidelity. That’s why!”

Now, the shocking thing I’ve discovered in my research… is that an OVERWHELMING majority of marriages have a partner who cheats at one time or another.

And I don’t mean like 51%.

Or 60%.

Or even 70%.

The real number is somewhere around 80%.

That’s right.

In 80% of marriages, at least 1 partner is unfaithful.

I’m not saying this is a conspiracy or anything… but it sure is awfully strange why no one talks about this.

And certainly when most people get married, it’s not part of our thinking.

That’s part of why healing and dealing with your wife’s infidelity is so damn hard for us guys.

It’s a sucker punch.

We weren’t expecting it. We thought it’d never happen to us. So we were relaxed, doing our own thing… and then… WHAM… out of nowhere… we get hit with the biggest knockout punch of our lives.

We didn’t prepare for it, we couldn’t stop it… but how we deal with it NOW will make a BIG difference in how much pain we experience, how long we experience it for, and ultimately whether or not we stay married or not.

When men get cheated on, there are a few very important mistakes we often commit that make the situation WORSE.

And I want to help YOU avoid these mistakes.

So I put together a special report you can download right now. It’s called

“7 Deadly Mistakes Men Make When The Wife Cheats – And How YOU Can Avoid Them.”

Since you’re on this page I know you’re looking for help, so enter your email below and I’ll send it to you right away. I’ll even follow up and send you free tips on how to get control over your emotions, get clear on why the affair happened, figure out if you should stay or go, get your power back, and much more.

Go claim your special report right now – it’s free when you enter your email below.

Talk soon. Things can get better.

– Kevin Jackson

“I read your special report. I just wanted to thank you for putting that on the internet. I feel better and I know I have a roller coaster ride though hell. I know I will be stronger once I pass hell and turn into a stronger person. Thank you again. You are a good man to help people after what you went through. Maybe one day I can help people like you have helped me.” – Bill, Australia

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61 Responses to 7 Deadly Mistakes Men Make When The Wife Cheats – And How YOU Can Avoid Them

  1. peter kamami says:

    im suspent my wife is cheating and i would like to know how to handle the situation.

  2. EDWIN says:

    I discovered that my wife cheated me since 2012 and I discovered only this year 2013 with the two different guys my friend and my niegbhor.it is the big upset in my life until now I can’t imagine how she does it for me actually I am working in abroad.It is the painfull thing that happen in to my life until now I can’t recover and I am willing to forgive him to restore our marraige.how could i go back my trust on her and how could I survive this situation.I have one daughter.and I am still working in abraod and my cheated wife was stay in thier place and my daughter stayed in my house.Please help me and guide me.


  3. lynn young says:

    I need to know how to deal with a woman that lies.

  4. Hutch says:

    I plan to keep my spouse in the house at all cost because my children are worth it to me. I do not sleep with her as the cheating continues, but, I want my children to have their mother there every morning when they wake up. Even though she may be too tired or whatever to be the mother she used to be, her body is there and my kids deserve to grow up in a house with both their real mom and their real dad. It is easy to set my feelings aside when three little lives depend on me to give them the best chance possible to have it all, every day. For what is the most important thing in the world to small children is having their mom and dad in their every day lives and in their expected roles. I gave up selfish choices when I brought the first one into this world and I will buffer it for them as best I can as long as I am given the power. I am truly a grateful Dad for these treasured little ones and no price is too high for their good.
    A grateful Dad will welcome your Avoid list though for the unexpected that may lie ahead.

  5. Michael says:

    I’m looking forward to seeing the information you are talking about.
    What do you do when you suspect that your wife is cheating?

  6. jason says:

    i need to no how to deal with a cheating wife and also one that i feel will never be a truthful person the lieing is my biggest concern i feel she has some type of problem telling the truth about anything

  7. brad Russell says:

    do i say anything or get a lawyer?

  8. Roger Trigg says:

    I have always had this gut feeling my wife cheated on me while I was in jail, first she told me we should go our seperate ways and cut all ties with me for a year! her friend had a brother that constantly went to my house to keep her company she said they were just friends what should I do

    • ryanjones says:

      look its in my openion that as a man when im not home i dont alow other men come to my house at all look we put hour selfs in these spots butt look there is such things as haveing frinds butt that comes with boundres and as a man if a nother man dont respect me and my house hold they will never be in my prezonts let alone my home . keep this in mind she wold go after your frind the fastes.leav her if she dont hve remorse about it

  9. robert rankin says:

    Need info

  10. Eric says:

    Ive lost my confidence!! Help

  11. Eric Davis says:

    Need help I lost my confidence

  12. Eric Davis says:

    Help lost my confidence

  13. C-rines says:

    I’m trying , just need more direction.

  14. John says:

    I do not know if my wife is cheating … she is not interested in me any more ..

  15. just found out my wife performed oral sex with a male coworker after they got out of work. she normally is home within 30 min. I found them in an empty parking lot in his car at 4 am just minutes after they jumped back to the front seat and she said nothing happened. 2 monthes later find out the truth from an insider

  16. anthony aristi says:

    She had an n affair with this guy who used to call me a homo out loud in front of people and I had told her, however she has cried over this situation several times..claims she was at a party got drunk and he kissed her, do not believe her cause she kept on going out partying with the same group for over 1 year. She was overseas awaiting her resident visa..please advise if I should continue with this grief..3 months ago I asker for divorce.

  17. David Bach says:

    I am seeking some advise and help on how to cope in my situation.

  18. Dumbass says:

    I want to stop hurting

  19. Susan says:

    This is to ask if my marriage is worth saving. I am the cheating wife. But I am the one who is having the most difficult time moving on

  20. Harry Nelson says:

    Please help me, I love her and I want to stay in this Marriage….

  21. rwtrobson says:

    looking forward to some advice

  22. T says:

    I am having a terrible time dealing with this when it was one of my core principles. We talked about issues we where having and told her what it would do to me if that ever happened. She even knew it was end of prior relationship. And she did it anyway.

  23. ken says:

    What the hell do I do now ? She cheated and I lost everything.

  24. Noah McGhee says:

    I love her, I found out through the phone bill and had to call her out on it. She was cheating on me with her old boss. She denied it at first then I showed her the data….now what?

  25. ryanjones says:

    wel what can i say she sleeped with a socaled frind of mine needles to say he and i ant frinds and i wont to couse him pain and everytime that thought crosses my mind i try and grt it off becuse i now that it wold be a bad thing to keep thinking about it so i just let it go in one side and out the other butt it harts butt it turns to anger now insteed of painfull memorys of that night .just keep focuse on whats importent and that is you and makeing yourself happy you got to love yourself enuf to get out or stay in the same hole it can make you stronger if uyou alow it to.

  26. Rob says:

    Was recently told by my wife that she cheated. I call it having an affair since she repeatedly went back night after night over the course of a year, but she doesn’t agree. I can see making a mistake and learning from it may be forgivable, but going back night after night means that you just don’t care. Not sure how to handle this, cant get images out of my head

  27. Steven says:

    Its aweful as I just went through it…it left me damaged and broken.

  28. Denver Perciful says:

    My wife is cheating on me with my best friend it started on thanksgiving two months ago. And now I am going through hell but they are already showing signs they are going to break up and they fight more because I feel I do not need to be involved. And they keep wanting me to stay in the middle of this but I love my wife and my so called best friend has domestic violence charges and anger issues from the last ten years because my wife seen him years ago so what I have been told. And now I am not going to give her what is being asked a annulment because she filed for a divorce and a Cleveland judge lost the paper work she said she payed nothing. And right now she is showing signs after four months she looking like me and her are going to have a child. We had sex 4 months ago. Every time I see her she getting bigger. And I heard her best friend tell her she is going to have to tell me at some point. Because her last child was born in 2009 and I had sympathy pains when I was around her last time. And I am going through it again and I know for a fact it is mine because I was the only one with her and we made love four months ago and the doctors told her that she was 50% chance she still could get pregnant and she maybe as I am sitting here she looks as if she is. So.

  29. Dave Wilson says:

    Need help coping

  30. Brad Yeterian says:

    I need this ASAP!!!

  31. Susan says:

    My husband and I are struglling to deal with mu infidelity that happened 9 years ago.

  32. David says:

    Hey man. My wife and I were having some really tough times. We argued for the smallest things and we were drifting apart. It got worse the day she told me she had slept with someone else. I never left her, but to this day I haven’ t stopped looking for the guy. I can’t shake off the desire of beating him to within an inch of his life.

  33. Kris says:

    Help please I’m going out of my mind.

  34. a says:

    Seems to be good

  35. David says:

    thanks so much

  36. shahriar baqer says:

    i’m about to marry to the dream girl of my life and i have one single problem. i’m not sure if she is really faithfull to me or not and she won’t give me the chance to ask for trust! how should i know if she is seeing someone else or not?
    help me and guide me please

  37. please help me find peace with my self,i ve been hit hard by my wife infidelity

  38. Don Fineberg says:

    thanks in advance for information

  39. Daniel says:

    I think that my wife is cheating on me

  40. Daniel says:

    I need a help from someone how to find out if my wife is cheating one please

  41. Fredrick says:


  42. john talgo says:

    I think she is cheating

  43. J says:

    Smack in the middle of it. This SYCKS!!

  44. Dave says:

    Please email me your free advice

  45. Andrew says:

    My wife recently told me she cheated on me. What are the 7 mistakes men make?

  46. Andrew says:

    My wife rently told me that she cheted on me, what are the 7 mistakes men make.

  47. Arch says:

    My wife seems sorry but how can I trust her still?

  48. Arch says:

    My wife seems sorry but how can I trust her still? Going nuts

  49. Stephen Tomma says:

    Changes in her sex life! She comes home with buises…I know…can i forgive her! Idk..she denizes it…i got no proof but i know.. Please help

  50. terry hauptli says:

    please email your advice thank you

  51. LLP says:

    I found out my wife was cheating on me by way of a text message that I inadvertently intercepted between her and her lover. I confronted her and found this was the second affair she has had over our 26 year mirage. I purchased your book and the book for her which helped a grate deal however I seem to be stuck. I feel like a doormat if stay. She is all happy that we are working it out and I feel she got everything she wanted, sex with others, and now a second chance at our relationship. She has no income and if I ask her to leave I then must pay to support her and her crappy disition to have an affair.
    how can I continue to work this out and not feel like a doormat, and how can I get over the resentment? what to do next? or should I ask her to leave and suck it up and pay for her life which will limit funds for me and the kids.

  52. wayne black says:

    my wife cheated 28 years ago, and it stills hurts.

  53. Harrison Kamsuli says:

    This is so helpful! I have just caught my wife in the same situation!

  54. Harrison Kamsuli says:

    Please let me the 7 mistakes to avoid!

  55. BC says:

    Help please, sons basketball coach

  56. Lyle Baroski says:

    I need to know more about why my wife is cheating

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