For most men, surviving our wife’s infidelity will be one of the biggest challenges of our lives.
We all enter marriages – myself included – with the expectation that we’ll never have to cope with our wife being unfaithful.
If you’re like me, I never thought in a MILLION YEARS I’d ever go through the gut-wrenching hell that infidelity is.
And this is part of the reason why recovering from infidelity is so damn hard for us guys.
Imagine a world where, before people got married, they walk into an office… and sit down with a wise old man.
And that man says,
“I understand you two are in love, you want to spend the rest of your lives together, and have kids, is that right?”
And the two of you look each other in the eyes, smile, and say “That’s absolutely right.”
Then the wise old man gets out a big book – I mean DICTIONARY big – and asks, “Do you know what this is?”
You say “Nope, sure don’t.”
He says, “This is a list of all the people who ever entered marriage with high hopes, in love, just like you two… and no real concern about infidelity…”
Then he goes on, “… but for everyone one of these marraige, at least of the partners were unfaithful.”
“Wow,” your soon to be wife says, “that’s a lot of people!”
The wise old man says, “Yep. Here, ” and he reaches down behind his desk, “here’s another interesting book. You know what this is?”
This book looked like the first, but was much, much smaller.
The two of you shake your heads.
“This book contains all the names of people who got married with hopes, like you two… but DIDN’T have to deal with infidelity.”
“Why is it so much smaller?” the two of you ask the wise old man.
“Because many more people cheat in marriages than are faithful. And that’s a fact the two of you need to accept and develop a plan for avoiding, if you want to get married with open eyes and avoid the pain of infidelity. That’s why!”
Now, the shocking thing I’ve discovered in my research… is that an OVERWHELMING majority of marriages have a partner who cheats at one time or another.
And I don’t mean like 51%. (Even if I think 51% would be a HUGE number in this case).
I mean… like around 80%.
In about 80% of marriages, at least 1 partner is unfaithful at one time or another.
I’m not saying this is a conspiracy or anything… but it sure is awfully strange why no one talks about this.
And certainly when most people get married, it’s not part of our thinking.
That’s part of why healing and dealing with your wife’s infidelity is so damn hard for us guys.
It’s a sucker punch.
We weren’t expecting it. We thought it’d never happen to us. So we were relaxed, doing our own thing… and then… WHAM… out of nowhere… we get hit with the knockout blow of our entire lives.
We didn’t prepare for it, and we couldn’t stop it… but we can be proactive NOW.
If your wife cheated on you, there are typical things guys do that make the situation WORSE.
And I want to help you avoid these mistakes.
So I put together a free report you can download right now. It’s called “The 7 Biggest Mistakes Men Make When Wives Cheat.”
GO GET THIS POWERFUL FREE REPORT RIGHT HERE.
Talk soon. Things will get better if you reach out for help. – Kevin Jackson
“I read your 7 mistakes. I just wanted to thank you for putting that on the internet. I feel better and I know I have a roller coaster ride though hell. I know I will be stronger once I pass hell and turn into a stronger person. Thank you again. You are a good man to help people after what you went through. Maybe one day I can help people like you have helped me.” – Bill, Australia